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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Has he cheated AGAIN? how do I stay away from him?My boyfriend have been together almost 3 years and we have one child together. We have both cheated on each other. Unlike him i came forward and admitted it. I hassles him for a whole year only to find out he cheated on me twice. He only admired the two times just because I had all the proof even the girls to show up at our home. I have a very weird gut feeling the same feeling that told me to accuse and dig like last time. I have also been aware he was talkin to a girl I introduced him behind my back over a year ago. This girl ha a thing for having sex with ppls lovers and I feel something weird. I have messages her via facebook from his account pretending to be him and he deleted it right away and mags her back saying it was me. Is he worried it's going to slip out. There is another Girl he was dating behind my back for a month but they both say they only kissed. Ive done some stuff like this to him to but after a horrible break up I came completely clean in everything and he said he did to but I don't believe it. He's only admitted things I caught him on. He's become very insecure with me where he's acting like my father. I can't even go to the store unless I bring the kids or our huge scary dog. I get this feeling he's done alot more then he claims. He has also physically abused me a few times jut won't let me leave him and wen I do he suffers from obsessive ex syndrome and I just run back to him. Do u think there's more I don't know and how do u think wud be a good way not to rub back to him? He shows up with gifts always calling etc. He was the best man in the world when j met him. I swear I thought he was one of a kind but now he's changed and we love each other very much but this relationship isn't healthy. I feel if Someone else agrees with me it with give me power to stay away. I'm tired I want truth I feel if he told me everything no matter how much it hurt me alot of or problems would start to ease out. He's hit me fuse I fought with him hourly accusing him of cheating.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 It's time to face facts this relationship is not going to go anywhere that is good for you and your child. Cut all ties with this guy have someone else drop your child off for visitation so you don't have to see him at all. It's time to find yourself someone who you wont want to cheat on and who wont cheat on you.
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