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writes:My ex boyfriend and i broke up about a year ago. He got with a new girlfriend right away and is on and off with her. About 6 months ago he cheated on her with me. But he got back together with her and acted like a total douchbag begging and pleading for her back just like the way he did for me. In the past month or so i find that im seeing him a lot more lately around time with her. 3 times in the past month we've seen eachother at the stop light not the same one but just around town. Yesterday i was running errands and i was stopped at a light i noticed a car speeding to the stop light and then i looked up and it was him and his girlfriend. I went about my business and went to wawa to get a coffee he then circles around wawa and goes to the walmart right near by. I didnt noticed this until i also was going to walmart and saw him and her walking out with nothing purchased. So i go in get what i need then i go to another store right across the street in a different town center and i see him driving around the parking lot.Is it me, or is this weird? It was obvious and i just want to know if hes so "moved on" why would he even do that with his new girlfriend in the car? If i had a new boyfriend and was truely moved on (which i am) i just have chosen to be single and focus on myself but if i was in another relationship i wouldnt be worried if i saw him driving, i wouldnt try to follow him or think that he was stalking me just because we were in the same place. So why is he doing it to me? It seems like he is desperate for any assurance that i still want him? Idk maybe you guys can help me out thanks!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 March 2011):
 Don't fret. If you see him all over then you can IGNORE him in MANY places.
Don't worry about WHY he does what he does, don't even care. He's history, cheating douche scumbag - good riddance.
Pat yourself on the back and REMIND yourself that you can do SOO much better then him.
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reader, Eilish  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 It seems to me that he basically wants to rub his new relationship right in your face. This isn't fair on you. However, you had a lucky escape. This man is a player, and you are better off without people like that. Whenever you see him again, just blank him, as if he isn't even there. He wants you to be bothered and hurt, so show him the opposite.xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2011): This guy hasnt moved on and needs to be mature and acknowledge that before he ends up on the next "love triangle" on Maury. He needs to break things off with her and clear his head so he can figure out where his emotions lie, with you or with her. He's clearly confused and is causing him to play games and be "wawa weird". My advice: Tell this guy what youve noticed about his behavior and that his emotions seem to be very clouded and that you wont get involved with him until he decides where his loyalty lies. For now, cause youre split, you should be neutral I feel and just encourage him to make a decision regardless of what the decision result may be. Good luck.
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reader, simpleandstraight  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 ok
so this is gonna sound really rude so please forgive me for this but i think this is your fault .he is taking you for granted .after a break -up you should have gone your way and never turned back to look at that A****e you not only broke his girlfriend's heart but also let yourself down by getting back to him.
now let's get to your question "why is he acting this way ?"
simple -because he want to rub your face in how great he is doing with his girlfriend . he simply wants to prove you that you are miserable without him .
so now you need to prove him that you are doing great and you don't need him like you said you are single, i'll suggest you enjoy your life this way go hang out with your girlfriends ,party hard ,go shopping,pamper yourself,flirt with every guy you like [now you won't have a guilt trip followed right :p ]give yourself all the time you missed out
trust me he is not worth thinking about .so don't waste your valuable time figuring him out rather go out and live your life .
take care
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 He's a dog. Don't even give him the time of day he's not worth it.
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