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writes: ok so the guy who left when i told him i loved him came bak almost two months ago to tell me he love me too and that what he was looking for was always right in front of his face..things have been going well but i have trust issues he knew that but when his phone rung this morning he jumped up to rush out. i heard a girls voice but didnt say anything. it just seemed odd how he jumped to get ready.. he then sees my face look questionable and he says that was my sister she needs a ride.. i said why did u jump so fast he said cause thats his sister and she jumps for him. he then said why would i talk to another girl in front of you? have I ever done that before? I said no..then i saw the frustration in his face. so i say please dnt break my heart or hurt me. and he says have i yet?? i asked him why is it so hard for him to say he will not hurt me or break my heart. and he says i should already know thats why.. then i just felt even more lost because he never can say anything to me face to face about anything real. was I wrong? because now he left seeming frustrated and that was not my intentions.now im left feeling sad because i feel like its not to much to ask for security when you love someone. but I also feel bad that I upset him..what do ido? do i just hide how I feel since he can not reciprocate reassurance..and just trust that he wont break my heart instead of asking him? dnt know what to do because i feel like im wrong. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok so just found out tonight that the reason he seemed so questionable to me about saying things in my face is because he was holding back alot.. he text me early morning just a few ago to tell me that he sorry for not being able to show me love when he know I need it. And thats because he he didnt want to tell me his ex girlfriend is supposidly pregnant with his child or another mans! that he dnt know yet and neither does she. he said that he didnt tell me because he did not want to lose me because he really love me and that when he came bak a month and a half ago he knew it wouldnt look right to me if he told me then cause he feared i wouldnt want to be with him. mind you tho, when he came bak in my life in january he'd told me then that he'd been with noone, mind you tho he'd told me then he realized he loved me. but yet the time he was gone he had time to have a girlfriend and love her and now he sayd he love me? i am at a lost right now but also hurt because i can't make sense of anything right now. he says he telling me now because he see that him acting the way he is, is hurting me and that he mad at his self for not telling me b4 now..b4 I got a tattoo of his name, before i slept with him, before I decided to be with him. this guy has been my friend for about a year first but froze back in october when i told him i loved him.. and like i said it hurt me not to see him again until january 28, but i thought he really came back for me but now it seems he came bak becuz he had been hurt and knew i loved him.. ofcourse he says thats not true but how can i feel other wise knowing what i know now.. I know my question hasnt been posted long and now i dnt even know what my question is anymore. i really just want to know do anyone think i should continue in this or let go?? please anyone, please ake time to help me...because i just told him stop textn me just now, i have over 64 txt in my phone from just this morning from him. and I dnt know what to do next when i wake up...he says he really loves me but to me he sounds confused about life, love and even tho he sayd he's not im 33 and he's 23..do i base on age or not? do i trust he love me or not? is it worth holding on regardless of how much this hurting me right now? ive loved him a long time and now that he was finally mine it was like a dream came true and even tho he got my name on him 2 thats just superficial stuff. that doesnt mean he love me like i love him even if he say it does. please help someone
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