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41-50,
*ernatine
writes:good day! im 32 y/o, a mother with four childrens and already separated. i had a relationship with a bachelor guy who is 28 y/o. at first everything is fair and smooth on our relationship. he shows me so much love as well to my kids, who also loves him back and accepted him as my boyfriend. but problems came just this time. his family already knew about our relationship, and they are very angry about it. they even sent him to a far province just to stay away from me. they cannot accept me for their son. but later he came back and we still continue our relationship secretly to avoid more problems on his family side. but later many more problems came. im always showing him support and love and always telling him im just here and never give up, and always tells him that in time everything will be in their right places. but he always hides me from anybody that might learn that our relationship is still going. and everytime problem occurs after his family knew about it. he always tells me that he is tired of this situation. but he still saying that he loves me, he just doesnt want his family be hurt again or he said to me just earlier that his conscience is bothering him so much, everytime he lies to his family that we are not seeing anymore. there are times he wont text or see me. im just bothered about his latest behaviours....does he still love me or want to end this relationship, but he doesnt have the courage to tell me? im really hurt now....very broken that i cant smile anymore...i love him so much..please help me
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (10 March 2011):
 If your having a sexual relationship with him STOP it.
If he still comes around to be with you and yours, than tell him to man up to his family or walk.
You don't need a player in your life and you don't need
to have some outside force dictating your self worth.
There you go, a recipe for commitment or disaster.
Either way you'll get the truth and that's all that matters.
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