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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Yesteday i found out my boyfriend has been flirting with another girl online. Saying he wanted to meet up and have sex with her, and even accepting pictures of her nude and masturbating to her over webcam. This girl then decided to email me and sent the conversation. I have no idea why.When i confronted my boyfriend he denyed it, but when i told him she had sent the conversation he instantly said sorry. He said he did not know who she was and just wanted to find out. I believe he didnt know who she was as at the beginning of the conversation he asked who she was, and how he knew her. He claims he didnt mean to hurt me and just got carried away. I'm not sure what to believe. He said he only continued to conversation to try and find out who it or she was. We have had people trying to cause trouble for us before and as she started offering to send pictures and to have sex he could have assumed it was someone joking around. But i know he did this to his previous girlfriend too but with someone he knew and actually fancied.I also dont see how masturbating on webcam will help find out who it is. He showed me he has blocked and removed her from his email account. He has said sorry multiple times and sent me a text saying "I miss you, i have pushed you miles away and i just want you back". I want to believe he is sorry but am finding it hard.Im sorry for the length of this but does anyone have any advice or help?
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reader, serenazai  +, writes (10 March 2011):
 I know its really hard, but I think you have to let go of him. You say he did it to his previous gf as well and that is not a good sign, don't let him get away with it! And he was on webcam to that woman, masturbating. Even if he did just get carried away, he clearly wasn't trying to find out who she was, he was enjoying himself. I honestly know how hard it is to let go in these situations, but I think it would be best to do so. Sorry if this isn't very helpful or seems harsh. Good Luck! If you want to talk in more detail about it feel free to message me. x
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