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writes:im 19 and still live at home and i cant tak eit anymore. i can move out and have no where to go, my whole life is being controlled by everyone in the house. My sister gets angry at me over small things calling me and swairing at me that pushes my confidence so low (and there is no stoping that) my parents want to control my bank account and everything i do, amking apointments behind my back to talk to people about thing, and my 10 year old brother is picking up on it all and is now blaming me for everything and just constenly telling me how much he hates me. I suffer with really bad ansiety and im find it impossible to get better when im constanly living on eadge around them. I have no private life and wheni try and stand up for my slef i get slowly put down untill i give up. how can i make this stop? i cant live like it anymore im just getting more and more depressed by it,please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you both for your advice, i cant move out right now but i have stuck to my guns and havnt given in. my parents have back off over the bank and now that i have started standing up for my slef my brother and sister are much better to get on with. But i am still working on moving out its about time i started to do things for my self =)
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (10 March 2011):
 Firstly if your parents don't recognize your depression, tell a teacher, a counselor a friend, your emotions should be given attention, if not in the home, from some other guidance.Give yourself a personal area in the house or outside where you can breath and just be calm. Do you have other outside activities that help you set goals. Other friends or relatives that hold an interest in you?You're feeling all kinds of things that are coming from your age and possibly from your biology. Don't neglect to ask for help in the community. You belong to tomorrow.Sending good thoughts towards you
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