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writes:Please help, I'm sooo confused. I've been with my boyfriend 2 years this month and things between us are good. I care about him a lot and I can't see us breaking up anytime soon but sometimes I just get so confused. I don't think I feel about him as I should and it kills me. He always tries to make me happy and treats me good but it just feels like something is wrong. Its almost like we're not made for each other, or he isn't for me. I know he cares about me a lot and I really wish I could be so in love with him but I don't know whats wrong. I tried telling him this and he got real sad saying that he'll try harder. Hearing that broke my heart because I told him it wasn't him and he never did anything wrong, it's just me. I don't want to break up but sometimes I feel like I should. I just don't know what I want and I don't know why.. Reply to this Question
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reader, DRdozsugar  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 Well done to start with for a 2 year relationship at your age! haha But, unfortuently, what you are describing are not feelings of romeo and juliet. Usually, when you doubt your feelings towards someone then you are 99% of the time, correct. Maybe in your case you have just been together too long for your age, and you do have feelings towards him they are just covered up at the moment by a subconscious longing for a little freedom. I agree with a previous comment on this one, a little break is what is needed to see what you would be missing out on, you never know you may end up missing what you had all along. :) xx
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reader, Eilish +, writes (9 March 2011):
 Maybe this is because you're only young and you have the time to settle down during the rest of your life. You will never get these years back.
However, is it worth throwing away someone who makes you happy?
I'd take a break. Make sure you realize and think about what you really want. See if you feel happier or sadder without him, and your decision will be made.xxx
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