A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I met this girl a few weeks ago in my course and managed to ask her for lunch one afternoon. We had a nice chat, talking about our families and interests etc.Following lunch she said we should get lunch again the week after, so I asked for her number and left things from there. A few days later I gave her a call saying I wouldn't be able to make lunch as I had a job application interview. She said to give her a text later on when I was available. The morning of my interview she wished me good luck and following it I gave her a message thanking her and asked if she was available for lunch later this week. She hasn't replied yet and it's been over a day. I dont want to send another message or call her to ask if she received it in case I come across as being too needy.Any idea what I should do?
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reader, eddie85 +, writes (12 March 2011):
 Leave the texting to the youngsters and be a man and call her. Texting is really a poor way to talk to person, especially setting up a date. To me, it shows laziness.
You'll be able to tell if she doesn't want to go out with you or not by her voice and reaction to when you speak. If you leave a message, via voice and she doesn't respond, I think it'd be time for you to move on.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2011): She's a little put out that you cancelled so she's playing hard to get. Give her more time, she may make you wait a few days so as not to appear desperate and ready to jump when you say.Either that or the fact you've cancelled this early on in the dating stage of this possible relationship means you've blown it. Women suffer with bruised egos as much as men trust me! I know it couldn't be helped, but she would naturally have replied as she didn't want to seem childish not replying to your cancellation text.If you haven't heard from her in 3 days (and you want to contact her) send her a friendly text apologising for cancelling and let her know you'd like to see her again. If she doesn't reply to this, the best advice I could give is to let it go...Hope she gets in touch and that my female insight has helped! :-)
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