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*ngiebaby1993
writes:I have been going out with my boyfriend for six months now and i feel ready for sex, we've tried before but it just hurts me alot, so i was wondering if theres any advice for first time? i heard taking paracetamol helps.
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reader, boxOfWisdom  +, writes (18 March 2011):
Advice that will help,
1. Talk to him tell him how ur feeling
2. Take it slow
3. Use lube it will assist in penetration an the reduction of friction which causes pain
4. Let him be on top ull feel more relaxed and comfortable
5. Thats all :) just enjoy, i hope i helped
Yours sincerely
boxOfWisdom
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reader, Angiebaby1993 +, writes (13 March 2011):
Angiebaby1993 is verified as being by the original poster of the question What positions did you use? any would be helpful :)
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reader, Whos that chick xxx +, writes (12 March 2011):
 If you and your boyfriend are going to try again talk to him to go slow and if you feel like your into much pain then stop or maybe try different positions i found that this was that helped me alot and i also got my partner to use lube that also helps and i dont think that paraceamol actually works tbh :) hope this helped
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reader, Angiebaby1993 +, writes (10 March 2011):
Angiebaby1993 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice, i take it all on board, :)
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reader, uncle bob  +, writes (10 March 2011):
 The first time or two will always hurt!
Proper lubrication is the key.
I'm talking "K-Y Jelly" or "Astroglide" or any other "PROPER" water based lubrication.
"NO HOME REMEDY'S".
It's important!
However, even though your physical body may be ready for the act of sex, is your mind ready?
Sex at your age can be an emotional rollercoaster!
How do you think your going to feel the day you start to see him show interests in other girls?
Especially when it was he, your virginity to?
How about when the two of you break up, as is almost always the case.
How do you think you will feel when you hear about all the stories he'll be telling his buddies, about your love making?
No matter what he tells you today, guys talk to each other about their sexual conquests all the time.
Almost always, guys will embellish their stories to the point where they sound like a real "STUD", and you sound like a real "SULT".
Do you really want to risk getting a reputation you don't deserve?
Why not wait until you know for sure your emotional ready for sex.
What do you have to loose?
And don't say your boyfriend, because if all he's there for is sex, then you don't need him in your life.
I know it's a lot to think about, but it's well worth considering.
Remember, youth is fleeting, regret lasts a lifetime!
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp +, writes (10 March 2011):
 Taking paracetomol will not help you. The first time always hurts a lot but believe me when I say it gets better. Are you dry before you start because this could be an issue? If you are nervous you should use a lubricant to help it along. This way your boyfriend's penis will slide in easier.
The pain part is just something we have all had to deal with. It will get better I promise!
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