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I wasn't ready for a relationship after our first date, but now I am ready. Should I give up or still try to win her trust and love?

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Question - (9 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 March 2011)
A male Nigeria age 30-35, *lems writes:

Hello, I asked a girl out about a year ago. She accepted and we started out well. I didn't take the date seriously because I was actually not ready for a relationship at that time. The reason is that it was my first date and it was distracting me from reading my books, but she wasn't since I was not her first date. A few months later, we left secondary school and I felt it was now time to date. I tried to continue from where we stopped but it seems she is not ready or maybe she takes me to be unserious. Should I give up or still try to win her trust and love?

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A male reader, sebaslookingforward Argentina +, writes (10 March 2011):

Move on. you said she was not nice and you were not serious about it. She has probably lost all interest on you, so you should move on

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (10 March 2011):

Aunty BimBim agony auntI think you blew it when you decided you didnt want a relationship after the first date. How is this girl to know that 12 months later you are not going to be a one date wonder again?

You need to start all over from the beginning, because at the moment she has no reason to trust you.

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