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anonymous
writes:Me and this chick seemed to hit it off really well. Hung out a good few times, 4days in a row actually. However now she has big exams coming up so we can't really meet up.. and it's always me that initiates texts. I'm kinda wondering if the midterms just an excuse to avoid me or something.Maybe I'm over thinking things here. If it was me and I was studying, I'd text during my break or something. I'm just uncertain if I should keep texting her, I mean I know if I text her now I'll get lots of replies, but that's just out of politeness.
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reader, SweetSmoochy  +, writes (10 March 2011):
 I agree with Rebeccaa. I looove it when my guy texts first and often don't text him first because I don't want to bug him. Wait til after she's done studying and maybe once a day until that time, check in to see how she is. Don't everwhelm her with it, total TOTAL turn-off. Best of Luck
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reader, yankit +, writes (9 March 2011):
mid terms are WAY more important than you or any other distraction.. in this "new-normal" a great education is her ONLY hope of survival, lay low and be there to applauad her good grades later. You will be far more apreciated than if you hang around and go "poor me!" study with her or for your self so you'll see that "Me and this chick' is not the best way to start a conversation.
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reader, uncle bob  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 If you keep texting her while she all wrapped up in her studies and mid-terms, your taking the chance of looking like a "Stalker", is that what you really want?You stand the chance of really scaring her!Give the girl a break! She's seriously concerned about her future, and wants good grades.If you want to stay in her "Good Books", as it where,next time you text her, apoligize to her for taking up her time, and tell her you look forward to reconnecting with her after her mid-terms.That way, she won't feel any pressure from you, and she'll feel much more relaxed, and looking forward to seeing you again. This will also tell her that you care about her and are happy to give her, "her space".So for the time being, leave her alone, and let her get on with what she sees as the most important thing in her life right now. HER FUTURE!
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reader, Rebeccaa +, writes (9 March 2011):
 She is probobly too busy to even think about anything else but study maybe thats why she is not texting you back, i could be wrong.
Just text her the occasional hey how are you? Or hope your doing well studying something like that. Dont overwhelm her with texts. Also she may always want you to text her first for some reason girls hardly ever want to send the first text because we think we are annoying you, dont no why.
Good luck, hope it works out.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (9 March 2011):
 Just relax. Midterms are a LOT of work, sleepless nights, studying, reading, more studying, etc.
Just chill until after midterms, and she'll most likely go back to hanging with you. Either way, you'll know your answer based on her behavior AFTER the midterms.
But don't create a crisis during the midterms. They are a big deal.
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reader, JDinCali +, writes (9 March 2011):
 Offer to be her study buddy. ;)
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