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writes:i'll try to keep this as brief as possible. so im 19 years old and my best friend is the same age, we have been best friends since we were 13 or 14 and sometimes we just kind of drift apart a little but always come back and its not akward its like we just saw eachother yesterday, i love her like a sister and we have been through a lot and there is nothing i wont do for her, she knows everything about me and vice versa. im 5'4", long dark hair, brown eyes, im fit, and i think im decent looking, i've never had a problem getting a guys attention. My best friend is only 5 ft she has dark hair too, and brown eyes but she is very pretty, she doesnt have a problem getting guys either the problem is though that it has happened more then once that i have introduced a guy im talking to to her and he will end up liking her and trying something behind my back, she always tells me i kno she would never backstab me, the one time she did like a guy she told me but we both stopped talking to him. i love her and would never let a guy come between us but now im wary and have second thoughts about introducing her to guys. I dont know if this is normal or im just over reacting and being parranoid. i just dont know what to do???
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reader, Abella +, writes (22 January 2012):
 this is an article on Self Confience from Code Warrior is also worth reading. I think it is an excellent article from Dear Cupid:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-is-confidence-and-how-do-i-get.html
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Abella
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reader, Abella +, writes (22 January 2012):
it does not sound like she is the one doing the flirting with the guys. It sounds more like that you are both just meeting the wrong sort of guys.
When a girl is interested in a girl and there is a spark between the two then the guy does not then show interest in the girlfriend of the first girl.
And it is good to have some close girlfriends who are your quasi sisters. My best girl friend is a girl I met when I was 4! we talk regularly and get on as well as any real sisters who really like each other as friends.
I don't see your reaction as jealousy. You are wary. But it is the guys you should be made at, not your friend. You both sound as attractive as each other.
Best wishes for the future.
Abella
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reader, Kyle007 +, writes (22 January 2012):
Maybe make an understanding in your friendship not to approach guys one or the other is talking to.
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