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I'm 7 months pregnant and my boyfriend is acting shady!

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Question - (9 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 March 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *ivelifelove writes:

Today I asked my boyfriend

if he wanted to go out and get something to eat i wanted to go to the olive garden

i had money and everything

It was his day off today and I wanted to see if he wanted to do something

instead of sitting around doing nothing

but he said no

It made me wonnder why doesnt he want to go out???

Is it me???

Im 7 in a half months pregnant and It makes me feel like I'm ugly when he doesnt even want to go out with me anywhere even to the store :(

I asked him Why he is acting shady about going to these places

I asked what are you afrideof getting caught or something??

He said "no because ever since it has been getting far in the pregnacy i dont want to go anywhere

that hurt me so bad it makes me feel unwanted

and ugly to him.

When I put make up on he asks me "who are you trying to look good for"

I just want to yell on the top of my lungs YOU GODDAM IT!!!!!

it really hurt me and when i walked away and slamed the door hes like b*tch!

It really hurt me really bad and all what he does is sit upstairs and play his dam video games and im down stairs writing this and crying it really just tore me apart...

I should just go and eat by myslef!!

f*ck him.

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A female reader, livelifelove United States +, writes (12 March 2011):

livelifelove is verified as being by the original poster of the question

ive taked till im blue in the face to him

Today he kept on telling me im in love with my ex boyfriend that it took me two years to get over

and he called me a slut

oh but he cold talk about his exs and who he has a sexual past with and im not supsto get mad

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2011):

Yeah, I say you have the right attitude by thinking F@#$ him! The guy sounds like an immature thug. Did he actually call you a b!tch???? No man should ever call his woman that!

Have you tried having a serious conversation or two with him about how you feel? Some people actually mean well, but just need to grow up. I would try talking him and see if it could work. Maybe couple's counseling might help, too. I normally would say to dump a guy like this, but since you're preggers, I don't wanna give any hasty answers.

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