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writes:My boyfriend asked me to move in with him in December to help out with some family issues I was going through. We both agree that the move happened too soon, but neither of us wants me to move out. He wants more space. Either I spend the night two nights a week somewhere, or he does. This doesn't sound reasonable to me at all. How can we give each other space, despite us living together and him already arriving home around 9 every night? We don't see each other all day until he gets home and in those cases I'm usually wanting to go to bed an hour later.We usually only really hang out together on the weekends and I'm at a loss. Reply to this Question
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reader, Foxxy1 +, writes (9 March 2011):
All the benefits of shacking up together just got thrown out the window if you ask me. Is this a house or an apartment? One should be able to create space right in the premises of the household. Well Ill say you talk about it because it obviously is bothering you.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (9 March 2011):
 That's strange on his part. I can understand space, but that's achieved without leaving for a few nights per week. I'd be worried about him cheating. Where would he go? Who would he invite into the house while you're gone?
Something's fishy here, especially if he's already coming home late.
Tell him that you're not his mom and that he can go have fun doing things, but if you've moved in together, just demanding that one or the other take off for a couple of days per week isn't going to happen.
It's not reasonable. I would be suspicious of cheating to be honest.
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