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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hey everybody.. I need advice badly! So I have been with my boyfriend for one year and I'm madly in love with him. I mean he's like my best friend and were so happy together. I just got a new job and there's a guy there that's super cute and very nice. The thing is I keep thinking about the guy at my job we haven't done anything, just some innocent flirting, and I am NOT a cheater but I guess my question is, is it normal to crush on another guy? And if it's not, what do I do? Please help.. Thanks
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (9 March 2011):
 It's normal to find other guys attractive, and to think they're nice, and to flirt innocently, and all that would lead up to a feeling of "crush," but I think that in most circumstances, it's just a falsified feelings, given by some temporary fascination with a new person in our lives. If you really outweight the pros and cons, I am sure that your bf will win my a long shot, because you know him, you love him, you trust him, and youre happy with him. Therefore, I suggest that you wipe the other guy out of your head. Have fun with him at work, but every time he crosses your mind, blow it off and think about your bf.
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reader, uncle bob  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 Hey, you're young and you're probably still searching for Mr. Right.Don't put any unnecessary pressure on yourself.Just keep living day by day and see where things take you.Just because you have a boyfriend now doesn't mean he's the one for you.Just take things slow.
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