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Did our two year relationship mean nothing to him?

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Question - (9 March 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 March 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So me and my ex got back together and in November and split again in December when he decided to kiss my best friend when he was drunk and out with his friends. But a week later I ended up staying at his house as we were on a night out with mutual friends. One minute he wanted to speak to me when we had split the next he never, I didn't know whether I was coming or going. Then his two sisters decided to turn on me all of a sudden, and get involved in our business which I didn't appreciate. He is now dating my friend. I don't know what to do, did our two year relationship mean nothing to him? Or is he just with her to get back at me? I just don't get it!

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A female reader, cupidus Canada +, writes (17 March 2011):

cupidus agony auntAgain I ask, why do you think he would want to hurt you?

What happened in the first part of the relationship?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2011):

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Well for the fact our relationship didn't work, I think I worded that wrong I mean like get at me, so it would hurt me.

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A male reader, Odds United States +, writes (10 March 2011):

Odds agony auntI can't say whether the relationship meant anything to him, but that's not actually what's important here.

What's actually important is that you're broken up, and dwelling on the subject will only hurt you.

You're broken up. You need to stop caring whether he is trying to get back at you, or whether his sisters are being mean. Stop trying to get back with him, stop talking to him. Make a clean break, cut off all contact, and stop thinking about him. Staying in touch will only create drama - fine if you've got that craving, but understand it's no way to live.

Learn to be happy as a single girl, and then you'll be ready to find a new guy.

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A female reader, cupidus Canada +, writes (10 March 2011):

cupidus agony auntGet back at you for what? You sound like your feeling guilty for something?

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