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male
age
26-29,
*aaviee
writes:Hey. Right I'll get straight to the point. Im getting feelings for an ex. Were both 15, go to the same school, and live really close. We often spend nights staying at hers playing the wii. I first went out with her when I was 12 and it lasted only a few months. Now we are really close and I'm starting to have feelings for her again. I got told by her best mate that she likes someone else and that didn't really bother me as I didn't expect anything to come of it. But now she has said to me directly that she doesn't like anyone else and her texts seem to suggest that she likes me back. The problem is that were very different. She is very shy where as I ament really. She isn't into kissing or holding hands or just being close in general. I don't get why I always end up liking her again as she has lied to me in past relationships, left me for other guys right after me and has lead me on a few timesI don't want to jump to conclusions and ask her out again for like the 6th time and get rejected. How do I make sure she wants a relationship and How do I make sure we last?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2011): I highly recommend only being friends with this girl, as you've said that she's lied, left you and lead you on. Do you really want to go through any of that again? And being 15, it's hard to have a serious relationship of any kind because of maturity levels. I know, you think you're very mature, but trust me: when you're 25, 30 or 35 years old, you'll look back and think you were so, so silly to be concerned over having feelings about this girl.
I think you should keep hanging out with your friends, and maybe you'll meet a girl who will be nicer to you.
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