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writes:My LDR boyfriend can be quite unreliable at the best of times - and even when I ask him things he can never give me a straight answer! - Anyway, the other day I text suggesting we don't see each other again if he can't make more sense to me - and he hasn't replied since!!What does this mean? - I was only wanting to give him a wake up call - and at the very least I thought he would reply - but no - it's his typical behaviour!! - So anyway (guys in particular) do you think he will call me back again??
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2011): I'm a guy going through the same think as u. My LDR woman lives in America and I'm from the uk. I make all the effort two communicate I write everyday send poems tell her I love her. And she takes my love for granted she doesn't communicate as often as she should so I've decided two tell her its over. Give him a week it two and if he doesn't respond then end it with him. That's how long I have give her good luck.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (31 March 2011):
 He's no boyfriend. I am in an LDR now. At first when we were not serious we had days even weeks without contact... now we have wake up calls, daily texts, numerous emails and bedtime phone calls at the bare minimum. An LDR needs nurturing...
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reader, Thornbirds  +, writes (30 March 2011):
 What does it mean? It means he doesn't care..period.On the other hand, (let's give him the benefit of the doubt) if you keep on texting him all the time, men do get pissed off if women can't leave them for a moment to live their lives without bugging their phones all the time. If, however, you are not under this type of a gf, then, I go back to my previous line, he simply doesn't care about you. Whether he calls back or not,the fact that he disregards your communication with him, it reflects how he values you and your relationship with him.Every time you communicate with him , and he does not reply, you feel neglected and disregarded. This is not the way a bf treats a gf, especially you just rely on this kind of communication to connect with each other..If all efforts come from you to keep in touch with each other,don't settle for "once in a while call" from him to disregard the times he does not respond to you. It's clear enough. He only wants to call you or communicate with you when it is convenient for him.. he'll be on a 24/7 on call duty if he truly cares about you..
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reader, moon river +, writes (30 March 2011):
 He's been absolutely rubbish. In a LDR text and phone is a vital part of communication as you don't get to talk face to face. He doesn't seem worth the hastle!However, are you sure there isn't a problem with his phone maybe?
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (30 March 2011):
 A person who is treating you badly in the first place won't respond to an ultimatum, they are more likely to use it as an excuse to bow out and pass the blame on you.He was treating you bad, you gave the ultimatum 'I suggest we dont see eachother again' and he hasnt replied because he has accepted your suggestion and quit.Time to move on I think.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (30 March 2011):
 dude even if he resists this break up, you should want more commitment from him, and I would do it anyway. another word for his unreliability in this relationship is laziness.
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