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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hello! I recently realized that I am bisexual and happy. I am not entirely open with it, but I'm not hiding it either. I have only told 2 friends and they are supportive and I appreciate it. My parents on the other hand, are homophobic so they cannot know this part about me. Anyways, I think I have a crush on this girl at school. I know she is into girls. She had a girlfriend, but they are no longer together. I have never spoken to her. I only know her name because I stumbled upon her Facebook. I really want to let her know I am interested in her. I have tried making eye contact with her, but no luck. I need something more effective! I would really like to be in a romantic relationship with her, but first I need to build a social relationship with her (if that makes any sense). I'm a little shy, but I can get over that. I guess what I'm asking is, how do I let her know that I am interested in her if she doesn't even know me? Thanks so much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2011): Before I went out with my now ex girlfriend she was totslly against girl on girl (mwuh ha ha) but I had this huge crush on her she was pretty tall and tan and utterly adorable when it came to expressing her feelings she is easily embarrsed so I knew id have to work my arse off.First i had fruends of friends introduce us then I talked to her casually very briefly and not too often I teased her a little in any subjects we had together and eventuallly got into the same group as her. aftermany lunch and dinner breaks together we were good friends, then the other two people in our group left at the same time after many talks i began skin contact i built up our relationship 9 months efore confessing my feelings over a romantic dinner 3 and she said yes after 1 and a half years of dating she moved to a foriegn country and fell in love with a boy :'( basically if you want your relationship to go anywher you need to act fast and becareful wat u say and how you say it girls are very sensitive as you know oh and if you can get her in on a question game to find out if she were gay wat girl would she go for works like a charm ;) good luck
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reader, Aver123  +, writes (30 March 2011):
hello, i am a lesbian, similar age so i know what your going through, but first ask yourself if you are truly interested in this girl and its not just because you want a relationship with just any girl. Anyway.. start of my liking her wallposts and her pictures, then comment and pop up on facebook and start talking. This is how me and my girlfriend got togeather and we have been dating for 1 year and 8 months. Anyway just starting talking and meet up. Goodluck oh and by the way i would tell your parents. My parents found out before i told them (no good) but i thought they where homophobic but i guess when its your child its different? Because after they found out they were fine but if you get into a relationship make sure you tell them, you dont want to break their trust, goodluck and tell me how it goes?
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (30 March 2011):
 Have you ever thought of just going up to her and starting a conversation? I know it is scary but sometimes you have to just face your fears and do it.If you cant do that then why not add her on facebook and start talking to her on there first, it will make it easy to talk to her in person. You will never know if you dont try.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2011): Just try the textbook tricks; if simply eye contact doesn't quite do it, catch her eye and then look away shyly, smile or maybe blush. This will probably alert her of your sexuality if she doesn't know already, and she may also figure that you're free. As for what's going on with your parents, I'd still advise that you tell them. My best friend is bisexual and her family is strongly Catholic, but she realized that once she told them they at least respected her courage and trust in them to share something so personal. Anyway, it's your choice.Good luck! x
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