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female
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26-29,
*ings_alot_chicky
writes:I'm not sure what I need to do, and I'm actually not sure what the problem is exactly, so her is my whole story.I had a crush on a boy (T) at my school since the beginning of November and by late December early January my friend C told me i should just tell him.(i think he already knew anyways, cuz i would draw on the back of his neck and put my headband on top of his head.) I told her at lunch, around him and one of my ex's: "I'm not telling the person I like that I like him. I never have and I never will."When I went go take care of my tray my ex followed me and asked who it was i liked. I asked him if he could keep it a secret so i told him.When I got to school the next, T wasn't at school the next day so i was sad. My ex told me T asked who it was I liked over facebook cuz he thought I liked him. So my ex told him. I was so furious at him.That weekend I got on facebook and T asked me out. I was so happy.T and I dated from January to March. three months. We were as happy as could be together. then i had a lot of drama going on in my life so i was telling my friend C i was thinking about dumping him till i got my life straitened out. She told me she want gonna tell him that I could be the one to tell him. well later that night i told her i decided not to dump him, but she told me she had already told him. I was so upset with her.T gave a note at school the next day and told me if i really wanted to break up with him to just go for it.I was so sad. I texted him telling him I would be a major idiot if i dumped him. and then the next weekend I found out he had another girlfriend and that was his way of dumping me.We ended up getting back together after five days. But what i have found out is he still has feelings for her and one of his other ex's. He says he still loves me and sgtill wants to marry me one day though. he even wants to buy me a promise ring.so at this point of time i am just lost and confused on what to do can you help me?
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reader, VelvetUnderground  +, writes (5 August 2011):
He does sound sweet but i personally thinkyou made yourself too avaiable, i'm not saying ignore or be mean. i think you should try act a bit more mysterious and make him chase you. And if he wants to marry and give you the promise ring then he want you and the ex so make he sees you and you alone
that may best advice, good luck !!
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