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writes:Hi All.I have a strange question to ask.I am a woman in her mid 60's i am fit and not unattractive,i excersize every day. well lately this young man he tells me he is 42 has struck up a conversation with me and walks along with me.he seemed nice so i didn't object to his walking with me.Well no he has wanted to keep taking my photo as i'm walking i would say he has at least 50 photos of me.Well yesterday he asked me the strangest thing he wanted to take photos of the back of my legs and while i was standing on my toes,i'm now beginning to wonder why you would want photos of the backs of someones legs?is this man for real or has he got a serious problem? should i stay away and walk in another direction,he has never said anything offensive to me and he really seemed quite nice.But now i'm not so sure if he has not got some problem after all 50 photos of someone you hardly know seems odd to me,What do you aunts think? Reply to this Question
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reader, VioletSparkle  +, writes (30 March 2011):
This sounds like a Creep Alert! there is a lot of weirdos around, and they all seem very nice, be very very careful. Did you ask him why he wanted those photos?
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reader, TEM  +, writes (30 March 2011):
 I read this and thought about it. Then I became a little concerned. I don't like to be suspicious of people as a rule, but there is something not quite right here and I think it best to ere on the side of caution here.
Do you know what he does with these photos? You have a right to know. 50 photos is excessive, and the part that is worrisome to me is that some of the photos are of just pieces of you - the back of your legs for example. That doesn't seem normal and smacks of a fetish in my book.
I would understand if he were a photographer for a health magazine or something like that. You are in your 60's, so I assume you are retired. Is he? What is he doing walking along side you during the daytime, taking photos? I'd be curious as to what his intentions were with those photos.
Since he is male, and younger, he is most likely stronger. I don't think it is a good idea for you to be alone with this person, and I get the feeling you don't think so either or you wouldn't have written in. Trust your instincts here. Try to stay away from him. A couple of suggestions if possible: walk with a friend and carry a cell phone.
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