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female
age
30-35,
*andygal07
writes: Dear cupid.my scorpio boyfriend has totally changed.He was the sweetest boy ever and he made mebelieve he was in love with.we were havin a distance relationship and we only seen twice. And then he came back from the states recently I was suposed to spend a week with him but I could only spend one night cause of work.we agreed we wil see the followin day. we had sex for d first time too. And thats the last time I saw my boyfriend. He stopped calling texting its like i dont exist. Ive tried to get him to talk to me but he never eva says anytin. And the worst part is he's in the states and I'm not even seein him. I confronted him 2 days ago and he assured me dthat I'm still his girlfriend.so I thought we ve settled our issued.But he's still not calling and he's not replying my texts either. I'm confused I love him.Help!
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reader, MugenTj +, writes (20 July 2011):
It looks bad. Try and be prepared for the worst. If anything, learn from this experience. Long distance relationship (LDR) is shit. I was in 2 LDR before. I had the girl fell for me, but in the end, they aren't what I thought and hoped. So I guess I was the bad guy and had to let them go before hurting them beyond repair. In an LDR, it's pretty easy to be optimistic and/or fooled. Even if it's difficult, at least try to date someone in person. Think about it, even couples with a good history can be destroyed if they move apart. I do believe that LDR can work, but it's rare and aint easy.
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