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Why does he only want me for sex?

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Question - (30 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 March 2011)
A age 36-40, anonymous writes:

He talks about my boobs and how I should come and stay the night at his. He said he misses me and keeps talking about what we used to do in bed. Sad part is, I like him but when he was single I gave him the chance to be with me and he didn't want anything serious with me. We just had a casual thing before he was with her. Truth be told we hardly know anything about each other because we used to mainly just have small talk and sleep together. What is he playing at?

If he's happy with her why does he want me? I'd like to think i'm intelligent and have things i'm interested in e.g. reading, writing, psychology, animals. All he seems to see is a girl who's only good for one thing. I'm not easy and he's the second guy i've ever been with. I just don't understand. It's not like i didn't try to have conversations with him before but all he did was grope me like i'm a piece of meat.

Yes, having a casual thing was stupid and maybe made me look "easy" but i'm not.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2011):

He's a womanizer. He's not your friend. Only wants to use you for sex. Sever all contact with him and get a std test immediately because womanizers are known for having lots of std's. He probably has a long list of std's. Run as fast you can away from him. He's all bad news.

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A male reader, jayokayo Ireland +, writes (31 March 2011):

jayokayo agony auntthis guy obviously only has one intention with you and thats sex, give him the elbow, your worth a lot more, to be honest from what you have written i dont see anything about him to like and that he sees you only as someone to have sex with.

i said it earlier and i will say it again your worth a lot more and you need to find a guy who will appreciate and respect you not just as a partner but as a human being.

and you are not stupid or easy, you just met the wrong kind of guy.

to finish off I would just like to say good luck and hope that you find that decent guy.....

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