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*aina
writes:i came to new zealand for my higher studies. My aim was to study while doing a part time job so that i can find next year's tuition fee. Yet things are worse than i thought than it would be. I could not find a job yet. goods are very costly here and i have to pay a rental too. my family cannot afford this any longer. In the meantime I have a terrible homesickness too. furthermore, the course is much more different than i expected. I chose graphic design, but i am compelled to write essays, do research etc. which i hate. I really hate this course now. My father took a loan to send me here as i insisted him. he has spent a lot of money. I feel like going home back.it will at least save next year's course fee. what should i do? please help me
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reader, taina +, writes (21 April 2011):
taina is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhmmmmm..........i still have the same problem. i could not find a job to earn my next year's tuition fee. i feel like going home whatever would be the next. everything has gone wrong for me. i am frustrated. day by day my bank account is getting empty. shall i go back home??
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reader, taina +, writes (1 April 2011):
taina is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much for your help. I think I should be more responsible than this. i will need your help even later on. Thanks again.
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (30 March 2011):
 Hi,
It sounds like your father has made a great sacrifice to send you there.
Is there no way you could talk to your tutor and explain how hard you are finding this? Maybe they can suggest some other options, rather than giving up and letting your parents down.
I understand how difficult it is, but it’s a small amount of time from your life, that could benefit you massively in the future.
Good luck with whatever you decide.
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reader, jayokayo  +, writes (30 March 2011):
 stick with the course, even though you hate it now but at the end of the course you will have achieved a skill and qualification that in turn will give you a much better chance at getting a job in graphic design and you can then progress to becoming a fairly decently paid graphics designer. but remember if you finish the course you will also be rewarding your farther by doing so. sometimes we have to sail through rough waters to get to where we are going.
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