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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:A lack of attention from women is really starting to affect my confidence.Okay, I know that clubs are not a great place to meet women, but it has worked for me in the past and I know it works for a lot of guys. I just feel like women aren't attracted to me. I'm not bad looking by any means, but for whatever reason girls rarely seem to go for me.In recent weeks I've tried to appear more confident and for a while that seemed to work well for me. I felt good about myself and thought that surely it would only be a matter of time before I get some interest. But alas I haven't.I don't know why I'm so impatient to find somebody. It's not even like I'm looking for anything serious, I just want to date and have fun. This is probably because my ex has started seeing someone and any time I fail to pick up a girl it reminds me that my ex has found somebody new very quickly and it hurts.What should I do? How can I improve my success with women?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah, you're probably right Orbiter, it hasn't been that long really. I wish I wasn't so impatient!
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reader, Orbiter +, writes (30 March 2011):
'In recent weeks'...I think this could be your problem, you haven't given it overly long by the sounds of it. Women like confidence so continue on with this for a bit and see how it goes. If in six months+ it hasn't worked at all then you might have more reason to think it's not working.
Although I will add that you should feel confident and good about yourself whether you have a girlfriend or not. Anonymous is right, life's too short.
You could also try different ways of meeting girls apart from clubs if it's really bothering you.
Forget about your ex, it's not important.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2011): Life is too short to make yourself miserable over this, enjoy your life.
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