Is there a way to stop this unwanted attention from his ex?

A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I'm currently 16 years old, and I got asked out last September for the first time. We did not talk much for the first 4months as I was shy. After getting into arguments, I decided just to go for it and now we are closer than I have ever been to anyone. My boyfriend is a few months younger than me, and he had recently broken up from his 2 year relationship, with a girl the same age. He told me they broke up because she was not too fussed about him and he didn't feel the same way. Since then, his ex has text me dirty things they had done in the third month of our relationship, which we did not have any contact in. When confronting my boyfriend he admitted he had done those things, but he denied saying he loved her, like she had said in the text. I have never spoken about her in a bad way, and I have always felt bad when she has called me a boyfriend stealer. Last month, the texts got worse, she sent me the same text over and over, flaming she had proof, which I couldn't care less about as I wasn't interacting with him much then. When she sees us together, she always watches, and is still texting me, she has not confronted me in person, and her parents has tried adding me on social websites. I have ignored everything so far, but is there a way to stop this unwanted attention? What do I do? Help me please!

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A male reader, MugenTj  +, writes (20 July 2011):

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