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writes:We have been married for 13 yrs. He was basically a virgin except that there were already some preconceived misgivings and anticipation on his part.(Backward communication and not very forward thinking or fun experimentation etc..)He was/is unsure about just everything. I on the other hand lost virginity at 17 and automatically suffred from bad girl good girl. But boy I loved sex..The way I felt the way I could make a boys body react! Natural freaking high!!! But afterward ladened with guilt cause I like it and the power I felt and during that time I really felt pretty (not usually any othe time) Im frustrated!!!!!!!! He comes too quickly I cant wear makeup perfume etc..he already getting if I move a little bit its over and IM FRUSTRATED!!!!!!
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reader, gigolojone  +, writes (19 July 2011):
 So sorry to hear that. I think he is not in control of his body. Have you tried to talk to him about it? You may find that he is too anxious to please you and because of the anxiety,he ends up coming too quickly.
Lots of foreplay would do the trick for him but he should also be able to control his body,as in hold it,relax and then resume.
I know how bad sex can frustrate.
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