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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Should things be improving in a relationship when its nearly 6month in. I only see my bf a a couple of nights a week and its only for a couple of hours. It feels like a long distant relationship but he only lives a few mins away from me.He never makes plans to see me. Ive said things to him and I think he knows he doesnt see me enough but he does nothing about. I am desperate to see him more, I feel lonely in this relationship and I know he isnt seeing anyone else.I dont want to walk away and he says he doesnt want to lose me but hes doing everything he can to lose me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2011): Thanks for the advice guys. No he doesnt live with his parents he lives with his gran. Hes 26 and he does have a busy job I accept that. The only time he asked me to come over and stay at his was when his gran was in hospital. None of his family even knows I exsist.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2011): Im sorry to read that, and I hate to put my beak where its not good news, but the simple reality that i have learned from experience, suggests :
"if someone likes you, they actually make it EASY for you to know this is the case"
if you have to wonder,
if you have to chase,
if you have to arrange,
if you have to ask,
and things are just not reciprocated...
pull up your socks and your self esteem (sorry!) long
enough to pull RIGHT BACK and be distant/unavailable
as obviously as you have been
two things will happen
1. he will begin to chase you harder
2. he will fade away
either way, you can progress, or move on
this comes with the best intentions
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2011): Does he live with his parents? It could be difficult to ask you to stay over if he lives with his parents.
However, if he lives alone I think he could see you more or spend more time with you. Unless works too hard and has no time for socialising.
Talk to him and tell him how you feel and what you want.
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