A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been going out with this girl for a while, maybe a month. And well, we're kinda like real close and we do what couples do, we've done stuff and all. But sometimes when we meet, she seems to like act a bit different like she's not as close as what we were on the previous dates we had and the next time, it'll the same thing that we're close again, sometimes she rejects my kisses, but I keep it all collected and cool. My point is, Is she interested in me? I just can't figure her out? or Is she playing mind games on me? What should I do? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Peonies  +, writes (31 March 2011):
She may like you a lot, but is afraid of getting hurt so she pulls back. What were her past relationships like? I'm guilty of doing that recently. I'm dating an amazing guy with whom I have developed feelings and it scared me. I keep taking steps back as a self preservation move, which I know is not a good way to have a healthy relationship. I'm working on not doing that anymore. She may be scared of getting hurt. Why don't you ask Her?
A
male
reader, ReturningtheFavor +, writes (30 March 2011):
I agree it could just be her mood, she might be a moody person, but in that case, you need to be careful. it mite offend her that you think she is in a bad mood. (dated one of those) I dont believe I would ask her directly. Does she have a close friend who you can ask? If the relationship isnt well established then asking her bout being hot and cold with you may weird her out. (dont know but i think its best not to ask until you are officially a couple) Women are very complicated and difficult to read, my suggestion is dont get to emotionally involed, until your official, and just be cool and patient. Love happens on its own time regardless of what how we want it to progess. Hope this helps! Hope you end up happy! :)
...............................
A
male
reader, dirtball +, writes (30 March 2011):
 It could just be her mood. You need to ask her about it though. Only she can tell you what she is thinking.
...............................
|
