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writes:i feel like i have no friends today i went to give a book back to my friends in free hour at school and they were just playing around. there were my "girlfriends" there girls that are friends. i asked them if and how much they liked me and they all said they hate me but they are friends with my best friends. and one of the ones who hates me the most is dating my best friend. i feel like i have no friends right now, all girls hate me and my friends are the popular type that are friends with everyone most of my good friends are boys and i am looking for some new friends that are girls. why do girls hate me? i am a little pereverted but i try not to be around them
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reader, devilzown  +, writes (6 April 2011):
Don't try so hard ;-) If you ask a girl if she likes you, you come off as insecure (a wuss) and well.. girls preffer men, not wussies who are apologetic!So do this: go stand in front of a mirror and take a deep breath... look at yourself and realise 'this is me, i'm the man' :) I'm not telling you to be arrogant, but only to have self respect and to believe in yourself.If you'll have gained enough confidence and selfrespect, you won't need to ask people if they like you ^^ they'll like you, because you like yourself, you're confident, and you'll be radiating that to other people. Your confidence will be fun to be around ^^So relax, if a girl SAYS she hates you, chances are slim they hate you anyway. Brush it off your shoulder, it's nothing :) maybe tease them a bit with it sometime in the future ;)if she needs something from you, tell her 'oh, but you hate me so much... not sure if i can give this/that to you now... *give a smirk* and give her what she wants... slowly :DBut she could also just hate you ;) (doubt it)hope this helpsbest regards,Matt
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2011): I don't think being perverted has anything to do with it LOL. I'm a girl and I find it cute, so I guess it just depends on the person.
If I were you I'd try and mingle more with the less popular kids, cos' I know from experience that they're usually far more stable and trustworthy. Talk to anyone (regardless of sex or race), socialize, and you'll find that girls find that independence attractive.
As for them hating you, I'm pretty sure they don't; they're probably suffering from PMT and general screwed up hormones LOL. We all do it. Also, they may have said it because they think you're trying to hit on them, but I can only guess that. It's just that if a guy were to enter my circle of girl friends, I'd immediately assume he was just a playboy. Just give yourself some space and find new people, whilst keeping your guy friends close.
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