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*uzzycushion
writes:Me and my girlfriend have been together for a few month now and we were completely loved up, we couldnt get enough of each other, she was upset i was there for her, id stay with her all night just to get her smiling again.Before we got together she told me about how badly she was hurt in the past so bad she said she never wants to be hurt like that ever again.And up until about a week ago we were still completely loved up, just so happy, then there was one night were she had hit a real low and was so upset but i stayed with her, we talked about silly things and i just stayed with her,letting her know i was there for her.The next day she told me how much it ment to her and that no one had ever been able to cheer her up she kept saying thankyou, no one had ever stayed with her like that before, she says shes never opened up to anyone before and told anyone things shes told me before, she said shes never had someone love her back just as much inreturn.But now since that day its like shes running scared completely shut off and trying to push me away, almost like shes loosing intrest, and ive asked her whats going on ? but shes told me that she is still completely loved up with me, but i can feel the distance there starting to build up.Its just so confusing, is she loosing intrest or is she scared that if she lets her self fall for me ill hurt her like she was hurt in the past? Reply to this Question
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reader, thomas1214  +, writes (30 March 2011):
shes afraid to commit. in other words needs to mature a little more. people get hurt from past relationships if shes not ready to let go of the past she is not ready to take a step forward for the future
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