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30-35,
*ver123
writes:hi, i know this site is mainly about advice on relationships but mine is slightly different and i would really appreciate the help on this...ok, so i am worried in case i have an eating disorder. I am constantly thinking about my weight as in anorexia. My BMI is the ideal weight and i weigh 8 stone but when i look in the mirror i feel extremely fat. I know that most girls my age hate their image but this is different. Or maybe not this is why i need advice. I have never felt comfortable about my appearance but now more then ever and its really getting me down. Food is constantly on my mind and its not like i dont like food but when i eat it i feel disgusting and upset and this depresses me. If i have a lot to eat in one day i feel like hurting myself (however i dont) but i have tried a few times to make myself but only succeeded once, i hated it but will admit i have tried again. I have looked for diet pills but they are hard to find. It is hard to explain my feelings but i really need help, i dont feel like this is normal i dont want my eating to take over my whole life, i try starving myself but i do find this hard but if i eat i feel extremely guilty. Because of little eating this then results in me being moody and snappy towards friends and family. Also it stops me from wanting sexual intercourse because i am so frightened in anybody seeing my stomach, this then ruins my relationship with my partner. There is much more feelings but basically this is depressing me and i dont know if i am normal? Just any help or advice will be much appreciated? thank you for taking the time to read this.
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reader, Aver123 +, writes (30 March 2011):
Aver123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou so much for answers, big help! Hopefully they will help , least now i dont feel as alone with my problem? anyway thankyou so much, by the sounds of things you's are both beautiful!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2011): Look I used to always feel that way. I had the wide hips, big butt, thick thighs, C cup boobs about 5'6 140-150 lbs. I always thought I was fat. All my friends were tiny little things, but the doctors always told me I was the perfect weight. Well I started not to care and gained like 25 lbs and now I now I'm fat. I look back at pictures of myself and can't believe I ever thought I was fat. I looked damn good. Eat good, exercise everyday even if its just walking around with friends, take vitamins and you will stay fit and healthy. What I used to do and am starting to do again, is instead of diet pills (bad stuff) take One-A-day Woman's metabolism (if you can get it. I dunno I live in the US). Take vitamins and remember guys like girls that have a little more to them. Really skinny girls with bones sticking out is not very attractive.
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