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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: me and my boyfriend finished about a week ago and i have found out all the time he was with me he was seeing someone else to, this isnt the reason we split, we split because we wasnt on good terms then i didnt see him for 2 weeks as he was working and then he said it was to hard as he works all week, goes to the gym after work, and has his daughter on weekends so it hard for him to see me. even though i found out he was with someone else and he basically said he hasnt got time for me, im still finding it so hard. all i do is cry, hes all i can think off. i am still in contact with him as he has texted to see if im ok. but this isnt making it easier, but when he doesnt text i get more upset. i love him and hate the fact iv lost him even though i found all this stuff out. i hate it i cant do nothing else but cry work doesnt help, going out with my friends doesnt help, i dont know what i can do because when i try and talk to my friends about it all i get is ull get over it, and then when i talk to him, he says i still love me to and if it was different it would have worked, you never know what might happen could bump into eachother in a year or somthing and get back. i hate it i dont knw what to do, i feel nothing helps and talking to people isit helping either, please suggest somthing i could try cos i cant stand feeling like this no longer ??
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reader, SIRJAY +, writes (30 March 2011):
Girl you have to move on with your life. If you don't let go, nothing better will come round the corner, life is never fair but you can change your life.
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