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anonymous
writes:hi im going with my boyfriend for 3 years. we are getting married in 2 years but im finding myself really bored and so is he. we do the same thing everytime im over just sit and watch tv i try and do other thing like asking to go for a walk or go out but he just does not want to do anything.IM at the point now thinking if this is what i really want for the rest of my life so can someone help me to get things back on track i still really love him just bored of what we do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2011): I think you need to talk to him. After a long time together, couples tend to "settle" into a routine and that's where you start to lose those initial sparks. Let him know you want to put some spice back into your relationship. You could take the initiative and maybe plan a trip somewhere - that way he has to get out of the house. Or surprise him with a fancy dinner so you guys have time to just talk and reconnect, instead of sitting in front of the tv. Sign up for a class so the two of you can learn something new together. Maybe this will inspire him to do the same.Good luck!
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