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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes: Me an my husband have been rowing a little (well up and down) he is always in Twitter I don't know his name or nothing. I went on history on pc an seen he's been on dirty dating sites but whats hurt the most is that it asked him to write what he thinks would bring girls to him . Let's just say I did not like what I read we have been togther 11 years . Help . Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (30 March 2011):
Hi There,
Had the same problem a couple of years ago, although it wasn’t twitter it was porn. At first I was really upset, and couldn’t make out why he needed to look at it.
The fact is, if they are going to cheat they will. And although I don’t like my other half looking at porn, I stopped upsetting myself as to what he is up to. The funny thing is he doesn’t seem to be bothered anymore. I think it’s a thing that men just go through; they like to know they can still pull.
My advise would be to let him get on with it, and don’t let it bother you. The time to worry is if he starts staying at work late or going out suddenly, you know all the tell tale signs.
I’m sure it’s nothing though.
Wish you luck xx
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