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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I'm making good grades in school and have a little bit of free time so I was thinking about maybe getting a girlfriend. I know this girl in one of my newer high school classes, we are both freshmen, and I like her, given i do not know much about her because I just moved to this high school from a ways away, she seems nice and friendly. She seems to be alright with me but I don't think she 'really' notices me, she is really pretty and sort of quiet, not to be confused with shy. The problem is that I haven't had a previous girl friend because I was previously home schooled and never got much of a chance. Any tips on how to carry on with this and how to manage being a boy friend would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
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reader, mrazdancer  +, writes (30 March 2011):
 Firstly, relax. Dating is fun! And I would definitely recommend becoming socially involved - friends - with her first. Me and my boyfriend were friends for 5 months before we started dating and I am sooooo glad we were because now we know everything about each other and get along like a house on fire. Now, about getting to know her. Find out as much as you can before hand - use social network sites like Facebook to find out what she's into outside of school, maybe sport for example. Because its always better to strike up a converstaion outside of school - you have less distractions! And don't make the mistake of playing "hard to get" more often than not girls cannot be bothered with the chasing game. Hope it helps, and contact me if you want to ask more :)
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