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Worried about standing out when everyone else is grinding at the school prom......

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Question - (30 March 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im going to prom with a guy... far more sexually experienced then me. i do not plan on having sex but at my school everyone grinds...and like id like to not stand out. is there any way i can get better at this. any tips? im ok...but idk still insecure

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2011):

Ok, Im a little confused about your question but I think your asking how to be a better/sexier dancer... at least when I was in highschool thats what grinding was... :)

So on that front, there are a few real tricks, the first is to feel the beat of the music, the second is to relax and have fun and feel pretty and sexy, and then just press your hips into him, and rotate and move them in time to the music. You can switch from being face to face and having yuor bum in his groin, which is erotic too!

Other than that, watch some music videos and practice in front of a mirror, it really really helps and its fun! :D

If this is totally not what you were asking, then sorry! :P

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A male reader, Dataluke United Kingdom +, writes (30 March 2011):

Dataluke agony auntThe prom isn't about who's grinding against whom and how hard,its about having fun and enjoying yourself. Everyone else will be enjoying themselves so why don't you?

All the best, Dataluke

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2011):

Just have fun, "grinding" means nothing.

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