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*lwayznd4eva116
writes:There is this boy that I have been talking to since September. When we first started talking, he decided to make me his girlfriend, but because I didnt know him that well, I didn't look at what we had as a "relationship" so I was still doing me and one night I wanted to go chill and drink with one of my male friends. But I did ask him ahead of time, if he would mind. He said he didnt care, but ever since then, he uses that against me, and calls me a "liar and cheater". So we havent gotten back together since then, but I still talk to him. I'm not sure if its love, but I really care about this boy. The problem is, I think he still is with his baby's mother. And even if they're not, I know he still loves her. So I dont know if I should let him go, or keep fighting for him. It seems like he cares about me one minute and then the next he doesnt. I'm not sure if its worth fighting for anymore, so I was going to end it with him for good. My question is, though, should I send him one last text to tell him how I feel because I have soo much on my mind, or should I just stop speaking to him altogether?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011): If he calls you a "liar and cheater" because you went out but you guys weren't even official in your mind. Then he has no right to call you that. If you think his inlove with his baby mama. Just let it go and move on. Goodluck
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