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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey, this might be a bit long so sorry in advnce. my life is a mess at it all started when i met "my boyfriend" everything was ok for the first 3 months and then everything started to become confussing. it first was his ex girl friend still emailing him on facebook and phoning his phone. he then asked me to phone her and tell her to back off so i did so. she then asked to met up with me so i did and she warned me off him, she kept saying hes still with his babies mother and that hes playing me and everything. when i confronted him about this he said it was all lies and to back him up his ex phoned him whiles he was with me. so i believed him and thought he was telling the truth. his ex then got my friend invovled and due to this argued with her and all the girls. we then was ok for bout a month but then i had his babies mother emailing me asking if i was with him and if is am hes cheating on her. when i asked him about this he again covered up with lies and i stupidly believed him, he was then seen with her by my brothers friend and one of my friends when i confront him again he made up more lies and covered it up. since then iv always had suppising as he havnt told his partents about me, or told his babies mother about me, and when people ask him if hes with someone hes says he dating someone. hes also told me not to tell everyone im with him as he dont want it getting back to his babies mother. aslo when he has his baby he do not text me or phone me or anything at first i thought it was cos he had his baby and babies need a lot or attention, but when he was over my house when his mother was on hoildays she phoned him and asked if ****(his babies mother) was still over i, i asked him about this and he said "ye she came over" and again just believed him. im so confussed i didnt know what to believe as i didnt want to believe he was still with her so just ignored it. he then changed and used to say things like " if i was to tell people about us, all id get back is you a slag and probley cheating on me, but me stupily am still with you" or " if i met someone else, you would just be a number added to my list" and things like this at the time i thought i was lucky he was still around but now am thinking different. but now someone has emailed his babies mother again and i agree it isnt right but hes blaming me for this. he always threatens to change his number when we agrue and now i think he has as iv tryed phoning him and texting him and his phone is off. i dont know were i stand as i cant get in conact with him to ask if its over as the last text he sent me was " its just one thing after another, but weve been though so much, and i love u, so when i come down we'll sort it" but now hes blanking me and i dont know were i stand, its killing me not knowing how he is or whats happening with us. what should i do should i try and move on or should i believe there still may be a chance or should i email his babies mother asking about all this what should i do help ?? i do love him and miss him so much and its killing me even thinking its over but all i want is him to say he doesnt want me no more but instead hes ignoring me i dont know what to do as all i can think of is him and whats happeneing and so on help please ???
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reader, lovelyeyes  +, writes (21 March 2011):
Omg! How many more red flags do u need!! Yes girl he is playing u!!! Why is she soooo important to him? I understand she's his babys momma but why doesn't he want her to know about u. Obviously he's gonna say No what else is he gonna say Yes honey I'm still w/her! Omg get rid of this guy and his drama. U don't need it in your life. U don't deserve to look stupid infront of all these people. To me he doesn't care about your feelings.
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