A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hello guys! I have been with my man for a year and a half. best relationship ever!. Six months ago he got an scholarship and went to study abroad. in spite of the distance we were in contact all the time and were caring and loving as always. actually, we figured out how to keep the amazing sexual part of our relationship which has always been great through the phone and internet. three months ago I visited him and it was perfect. But the coming back (since it's really really far) was awful, when I came back he found out his mom was very sick but he cannot come back immediately, I of course was very supportive and she's in a very complicated treatment now while he's away. we are still in touch everyday but he hasn't demonstrate any sexual interest since I came back. I asked and he said his mind is busy with all of his mother disease, but still, time goes by and i feel like he started becoming a friend again. what do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, supermum  +, writes (9 November 2011):
 You need to let him have some space, he is clearly going through an awful time at the moment and needs your support more than your sexual advances. Continue being there for him, and things will eventually get back to normal, but if you pressure him for something he is not willing to give right now, you may push him away.
I know this must be hard for you, and there are ways you can entertain yourself until things get back to normal....
I hope things improve for you soon, really I do. I unerstand this must be awful. But the fact that you are still in touch every day is encouraging. Maybe he needs you as a friend right now more than anything else, and you have to give that to him. Don't loose hope for the future though!
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