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writes:i really like my guy friend who i had met about 8 months ago. hes everything i want in a guy, even though hes naturally a flirt. i always catch him staring at me and he always punches me and doesnt stupid little things. he trusts me enough to tell me about the girls that he thinks are cute, and recently he asked one of them out. he went on his first day with her the other night, and he ended up going to my favourite place, which resulted in me seeing him. he didnt introduce me to the girl and just kept staring at me, and made it seem kind of awkward. now his ex wants him back because he was on a date with this girl, and he really liked her so i feel threatend because i feel like he would choose her in a heartbeat, yet i think he really likes the girl he went on a date withshould i tell him that i am head over heels for him? i feel like i just need to let him know about my feelings.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): I think if hes telling you about other girls than he probably might not be interested he might be if he stares at you and flirts with you. you'll never know until you tell him how you feel.i have the same situation with my guy friend he has a girl friend and flirts with me or whatever but i think he would choose his ex over anyone especially if he really likes her.but if he rejects you there's always more fish in the sea.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (21 March 2011):
 Yeah, better to tell him now and not when it's too late, meaning if he or you find someone else.
It is a risk. However, if he likes you back, it's a risk well worth it! If he doesn't, there will be a bit of awkwardness, but it should pass if both of you remain dedicated to maintaining the friendship you have now.
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reader, bella5153 +, writes (21 March 2011):
NO! He's a player and he'll play you! Don't give him the time of day, he's not interested, or else he would be all about you... He would live and breathe only you! Don't waste your time, just ignore him, don't give him your attention, don't give him the time of day! Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): Don't tell him your are head over heels for him. However you can tell him you have a crush on him, but head over heels might scare him off a bit. And also whats wrong with girls asking a guy out, girls are allowed to ask guys out too! So ask him out on a date and if he does say yes then your in and you can win him over from there, and if he says no he was either leading you on or he just likes staring at you for some particular reason. But if he does say no, don't give up on him if he really is your perfect man!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): do you think he shares the same feelings for you? if you do then i say go ahead and tell him. but just be reminded that if he does not share the same feelings, things could be potentially awkward once he finds out. i really hope he does like you back because that would just be the best thing ever, since relationships that start from friendships can be a great thing. it's always hard to put yourself out there, i completely understand that, but sometimes you don't know what you might be missing out on. good luck!!
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reader, thegraveyarddoll +, writes (21 March 2011):
Well the answer is right there hunny- if you feel you need to then do it. if you dont you may end up with a very unhealthy obsession with him, and it could ruin ur friendship. also you would be surprised how many "how i met the love of my life" stories begin with "i thought he didnt want me, that he was out of my league etc, he thought the same thing!!" so tell him...the worst that can happen is he wont feel the same. dont make it awkward if you want to keep him as a friend..so let him know that too :)
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