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writes:Im 18 year college student and I've been dating a 22 year old college student for 4 months. A lot of guys ask me out because they're sexually attracted to me which causes our relationship to stumble. Im 5'3 122 pounds and he's 5'10 240 pounds and a bit chunky. Were sexually attracted to each other yet we still look out for one another. We're dating interacially for the first time I'm hispanic/ black and he's hispanic. He says he's fat and that I don't like him because he's not what I want. The 1st time we met was at a party and ever since we'd hang out. At parties a lot of his friends would profess their attraction and interest in me but i ignored them. The last time we partied he cut it short and took me home because he said his friends were talking trash. Now we don't hangout and drink because he's so concerned with what his friends are saying. We argue because he doesn't want to kiss, hangout and make out anymore. He says he wants to be friends right now and said that just because we like each other doesn't mean we have to kiss. He wants to have sex though and he gets aroused then always talks bout my body. Well i told him some personal things, that i come from a broken home and use to prostitute and I think he doesn't treat me the same because of my past. He use to be a *...*.....* but i don't judge him. He told me he doesn't judge me and cares about me. He helps me and will do anything but kiss me..I feel weird....the other day we were relaxing and hugging then he told me to take off my pants and I told him i wasn't ready for sex and I told him it makes me feel weird. He told me i'm "tripping". He just talks about my butt and I feel upset about it. he gets jealous and accuses me of cheating yet he doesn't want to have fun with me anymore. I know his friend told me his last girlfriend left him, he lost his job, and that my guy is insecure. In conclusion to this long story, Is he insecure ? and what should I do about this relationship?
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reader, tymmyb +, writes (22 March 2011):
tymmyb is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the advice
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reader, boxOfWisdom  +, writes (21 March 2011):
Yes, he is definatly insecure, u have 2 choices, 1. Talk to himdirectly and openly about ur feelings and see where it goes from there or 2. Leave him, all he want is sex, thats not right, y do uvthink hes insecure becoz he know he not pleaseing u and only useing u so he doesnt want u around other men incase u cjeat on him, trust me leaveing him is probably for the best
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