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anonymous
writes:Of late my husband has been in constant communication with his ex girlfriend he calls her up to 5 times in a day and each call last for more than five minites if i ask him he says they are just good friends thats all and he tells me they will stop talking but they are now doing it secretly what should i do? he says he still love me but dont believe him
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): You need to honestly look at your relationship and find out what is wrong so you can get answers to why he is seeking communication with her...Have you been a bit difficult with him that he feels he cannot talk or open up with you?....Make him feel more relaxed to talk to you...He wouldnt need to talk to this woman so often...Talk to your husband without nagging or accusing him and let him know how you feel, invite him to talk to you and by this please change any behaviour that may have been pushing him away(be honest with yourself, stuff like this dont just happen out of a vaccuum)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): Am married and still have feelings for my ex. We broke up 10 years ago, but because we have kids together, I won't talk about my feelings with him, because I want to keep things smooth sailing for the sake of the kids. I have remarried and have another child with my new husband. Because the ex lives in another country it does make things easier. Feelings can stay there for a long time, and people can try to live another life. I don't know what your husband is doing, only you can figure that out. 5 times a day sounds horribly excessive. I think you know the answer within yourself.
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reader, yazanco  +, writes (21 March 2011):
Men are cheaters they think only of having sex, his ex will give it to him, i promise you.
Take an action, otherwise, keep looking and dont say a thing coz this may cause big problems.
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