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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i have feelings for a close guy friend of mine. the thing is, i don't think he has any idea. it feels like he's always playing games with me, ignoring me one minute and then telling me his deepest secrets the next. whenever we hang out alone he's the nicest guy i know. recently, two guys have shown an interest in me and i've stopped telling him about it. when my friends and i talk about it in front of him, he gets jealous and makes immature comments like he's angry at me. my friend tells me that he seems genuinely upset because he doesn't know what's going on with me and this guy, and she thinks it's because he may like me, he just doesn't have the balls to tell me. what do you guys think?? i know i do like him, but i don't want to waste my time waiting for him when there is another guy in my life who has already shown an interest in me.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (21 March 2011):
 He probably does like you. Guys don't typically befriend women if they aren't interested in taking things further (or at least the possibility of taking things further).
If you like him too, you might want to talk to him about it. Let him know where you stand and what you're feeling and if he's interested he should step up or not get upset if you date someone else.
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reader, ms helpful  +, writes (21 March 2011):
I think the first thing to do is actually make it bait your interested and see his response.if he doesn't react that he likes you back then don't waste your time.after this is you do go out with someone, look at how he reacts to this if hes angry confront and ask why this is.if he is childish about it then i think it could be that you are moving on in your life trying to ind someone special and he has not found anyone.
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