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anonymous
writes:okay here is the situation, my boyfriend and i are almost 3 weeks now. and of course, i don't have a full trust on him. so i created a fake account on some social network site and started messaging him. using this fake account, i told him if he is single and if we could meet. guess what? he told him he was single and agreed for meetup. i was so shocked, i confronted him about it and he was so sorry and said he will not do it again ever (he promised). i forgave him. after a week, i don't know, i still have this doubt about him, i created another fake account, and guess what, he did it again. i don't know what's his problem. if he doesn't want me anymore, why didnt he tell to my face. it hurts like hell, i really love him. he said i am the only one he loves. but why did he do this? i just want him to be honest, if he dont love me anymore, i want him to tell me. i didnt confronted him yet about this. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): You are not in a relationship at least not one that is serious in his eyes...Let go of this douche and move on...Really hun, it will not get better and your repeated forgiveness will only prove to him you will put up with crap no matter how many times he does it....This is early in the relationship and if youestablish this kind of balance you are in for a very very miserable ride..Getout now while it sill early, dont spend anymore time investing yourself in a very fruitless and painful relationship....Leave now and dont look back not matter what he says..He doesnt love you, what you only been togher three weeks plus look at his behaviour is not one of a man in love...Ditch the douche
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reader, Simplysarah400  +, writes (21 March 2011):
If you have only been together 3 weeks.. where will this relationship be at after 3 months... more cheating, lying, hiding, sneaking about..
Honestly.. leave it! Find someone who will treat you right! :)
You dont need that in your life.
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reader, addz  +, writes (21 March 2011):
Lol how can you be attracted to someone so gullible and stupid to be played 2 weeks in a row by you he must be a fool. So he isn't very bright and willing to meet up with random people behind your back ? whats there to love is he loaded seriously whats the deal ? 3 weeks now ? So you have been going out for just 3 weeks and he is already tempted to cheat with random girls move on.
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