How can I get over my jealousy issues when he is around other girls? And how can I be more confident in the bedroom?

A female age 30-35, *iss_Confused91 writes:

Okay, my boyfriend and I have been dating almost two years now. We also have a son together. The thing is I can't seem to get over my jealousy issue and my insecurities of my self. He has alot of girls as friends and it irrates me when he touches them (mean a hug,or a hand on their shoulder and stuff like that) i have tried to let it go but i hate it when he or other girls touch him and i have told him this and he thinks i'm to into myself. But the thing is i'm not into myself i have no self confidents and i try to think good thoughts about me but i can't. I hate my body and when he talks and is around other girls i get the question why is he with me when there is so much better girls out there that have way more in common then me. We talked one time and he told me that my jealousy issue is pushing him away a little. I have been trying to get over this but i just can't seem to. So, i geuss one of my questions is how can i get over him hanging around girls and touching them and everything else? I love him to death and i don't want to loose him and the more i keep trying to get ahold of my problems the more it seems i can't. Oh one more thing how can i get myself to get enough confidents to do the things i want in the bedroom. For example i try to talk dirty and i stop myself because i am afraid of what he might say or it will turn him off. The same goes with sexy outfits and hoow to seduce him? if any body can givr me something to try i would highly appreciate it.

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