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writes: Hi there is this guy who i really like and the problem is that I'm in love with him and i haven't seen him in almost 2 months and he told me 2 leave him alone and i cant..... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): and he told me 2 leave him alone and i cant.....
You must respect his wishes.
After all, were it you telling a guy to leave you alone, you would want the guy to respect your wishes, else it might turn ugly.
You cant make someone love you. You just cant. They either have it for you or they dont. No amount of pleading, begging, crying, stalking or otherwise is ever going to change that.
Have a little pride and decency for yourself. Dont grovel and beg at his feet. He is not the only man in this world.
It is time for you to move on from this. 2 months and his serious response should have set you straight already. At 30-35 years of age, you are definately old enough to know better by now.
Perhaps you should join some groups or organizations to get you out there, focused, and meeting new people. The perfect man for you is someone that will never tell you to go away, and makes sure to see you as often as he can.
He is not the right man for you. He knows this already. Now its time for you to trust his judgement and know this too.
Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): Respect his feelings and leave him alone..How would you feel if a guy you didnt want wouldnt leave you alone?...Same rules girl...Suck it up and stay away
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reader, addz  +, writes (21 March 2011):
Whats the back story to this how do you know him etc etc or your just a stalker out of the blue ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): Why did he tell you to leave him alone?
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