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writes:What does it mean when a woman touches herself on the rear as she walks out of a room? I share an office with a woman, and it seems that every time she leaves she touches her butt on the way out.Three possibilities come to mind for me:1. She's checking to be sure she's covered (e.g., no gap above pants),2. She's subconsciously covering my view of it, or3. She's subconsciously thinking about me looking at it.Any woman have an answer to this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2018): Hey, found this becasue I have the same question. Do you work with Jen too? hahahha. Anyway, I have been thinking everything you have, 'cept, I am not into her, it's just that I cannot ignore the movement of her hand, now that I am aware of it. And it ony seems ot be with me, becasue I am looking for it now. A. I am a pervert and she is protecting herself, B. SHe is subconsciously presenting, or C. I give her an itchy butt. HAHAH! As an aside, I am her boss, and she touches me when we talk, so i dunno what the game is, just wish I knew. Looks like the overwhelming vote is: it's not all about you.
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reader, Nime +, writes (22 March 2011):
 You know, if she's dressing to work in a way that lets her thong be visible, I don't think you should feel bad for looking. Women have to more cognizant about men's biology; it's not right to dress in such a distracting way at work. Women can argue as much as they want that they should be able to dress however they wish, but the fact is that men's sexuality is a huge part of what makes men men, and women have to be more compromising if we are all to get along.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI do admire her a little too much, and I haven't been as discreet as I've tried to be. That might be it.
Today, for example, she was wearing a thong, and the strap was visible above her slacks. It was hard not to look. But it's embarrassing to be caught.
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reader, soon567 +, writes (21 March 2011):
why is it rude to check someone out that you're interested in male/female?
She could be itchy...lol. Who knows. Only she could answer that.
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (21 March 2011):
 I do they because I have a habit of letting my arms swings into the sides of doors, then get bruised. Poor spacial awareness!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (21 March 2011):
 It's got nothing to do with you, it only seems like it does since you're so focused on her butt? The only way I can see this having to do with you is if you have been staring at her butt so much she's uncomfortable. It's rude to stare at a woman's chest or butt.
I do this sometimes to make sure nothing's stuck to my butt or that my skirt hasn't ridden up.
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reader, VioletSparkle  +, writes (21 March 2011):
random thoughts.. tight underpants? checking if tampon/pad is in place or if it is showing? What I can imagine is that is someone were looking at my butt and I liked that I wouldn't "distract the viewing", so she might just feel self conscious and vaguely annoyed?- perhaps try and look somewhere else and see what happens? sorry to be of so little help
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reader, lakers_lover09 +, writes (21 March 2011):
rule number one of being a man...NEVER TRY TO UNDERSTAND A WOMENS ACTIONS!! ;)
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reader, Nime +, writes (21 March 2011):
Could she be adjusting her underwear or worried her pants rode up her, forgive me for this word, 'crack', so she's covering the line?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (21 March 2011):
 Usually I do this while saying something along the lines of "Kiss my butt". Of cousre that may just be me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): Ummm...it probably has nothing to do with you! It's probably just a subconscious habit.
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