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writes: me and my fiance are having a hard time at the moment and i dont know if she wants to be with me she has already split up with me and got back with me but she says im too obsesesive with her by texting her and ringing her everyday.i think i have the proplem because thats the type of guy i am i love her and im going to be there for her all ther time i just need help on what to do because if i con't get help then she will finish me for good and i will be devistated
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (22 March 2011):
Hey.
Don't text her as much. Give her a little space. Sure text her once saying "you miss her" or "can't wait to see you". But wait 'til she texts you. She probably feels suffocated, so a little backing off by you will probably help
I hope this helps
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reader, ironman777 +, writes (22 March 2011):
Hi - if you've read my posts I'm in the same position as you and listen you love her deeply and madly and just want to be with her. Do your self a big big favour - learn to be self reliant. She will still love you but yout also allowing her to live her own life and not feel guilty if she doesnt talk to you. Have fun with your own friends and do things for yourself and when you are with her make her feel special and just as loved as so obviously are. Good luck - I hope it works out for you
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