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*erlyn123
writes:please help..Im into a relationship for almost an year.. things started in a good sign in the initial phase, but later after few months there were lots of fights and misunderstanding between us and it was me who always give up 1st and compromised.. now a days he's very harsh to me and hurts me with his words, from the intial stage he never trusts me and keeps checking my mob and bills evrything.. i did evrything to please him..He wanted me to change my dress sense, he insisted in wearing salwars to my office and i did that for him too, he doesnt like me talking with guys and i dont do that too.. but still he doesnt care for me, when i ask him why do you keep fighting for things, he says i love you a lot..and this one year i just lived for him alone, left all my friends and gave him the full priority..i never asked him anything, i just wanted him to sacrifice his smoking and drinking habit for me and he promised that we will never touch it. but 2 days back we had a big fight and he pulled my dress on the road which actually tore in front of others and i was very disappointed and shocked by his act, and i cried and left the plc, after 10mins i just called him back n was shocked to see him smoking, that literally broke me into pieces.. i just found he was cheating me on this and he has not left anything for me to please in his life..what do i do???pls help..
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): I dont understand "You are shocked by him smoking" but he tore your dress in front of others and that was bearable?
You need to ditch this man, he has no respect for you.
If you dont want to end up like some sad lonely slave, I would tell him its over now.
I know it will hurt, but why waste your life on this guy, when you could meet the man of your dreams, and be happy?
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